Every woman wants to find Mr. Right. To find him, efforts are needed to be done like going out on dates, having actual real conversations and getting to know each other moments. With that, we also need to be careful with what we share and say because there are some guys, like the respectable and eligible bachelors in Singapore, who are actually listening and would know whether you are also the right girl for them. In order to save yourself from embarrassment and heartbreak of becoming a turnoff, you should note the following mood killers to avoid in conversations.

1. Gossip

If you do not want to appear shallow and judgmental then you should avoid initiating or sharing gossip to your date or possible boyfie. It could really be a turnoff if he hears you enjoying spreading rumors about other people that you should not be meddling about.

2. Material things

When talking with men, it is not really advisable to talk about all the material things you own. Some would take it against you and would think of you as materialistic or a showoff which could lose their interest in you. Men find it more attractive if you talk about things that both of you might have in common, may it be material or a hobby. Just don’t share too much on material things or shopping not unless he likes to talk about such topics.

3. Insecurities

It is better that you do not second-guess yourself all the time. Most men like confident women. Show them that you do not need reassurance all the time and that you have a high self-esteem and that you love yourself enough. Insecure girls are always clingy and needy which are basically big turnoffs for guys.

4. Biases

Sometimes we do not notice harsh comments and racist statements that we say and this could kill our chances to finding true love. Being disrespectful and racist to other races can make you offensive and mean. You wouldn’t want to be known as the girl who constantly makes racist remarks, right? As much as possible, think before you share your thoughts on sensitive topics like racism, etc.

5. Negativity

Who would want to have a partner who constantly speaks negatively? You should avoid talking about problems or negative remarks all the time. You should raise the spirit and bring happiness to conversations and not the other way around.

6. Critical comments

If a guy hears you making fun of other people, it could potentially end his feelings for you not unless he’s a jerk and enjoys hearing those things. But with decent and great guys, it is better that you refrain yourself from being such a bully and as much as possible show come compassion and kindness. Don’t make yourself look small by putting others down. Kindness is always sexier and attractive than being insensitive and mean.

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